大约从两岁起,每次带儿子到酒泉或者其他地方,遇到乞讨者,我和妻子都要给儿子几元钱,让他送过去,并且嘱咐他要注意方式,包括表情和递给时的动作。那时候,我们还在西北的巴丹吉林沙漠,若不逢节假日,一家人很难得一起外出。每一次在街边看到不幸者,我和妻子都要儿子亲自去做点小善事。不管那些是真是假,是个人诈骗还是团伙犯罪。我们只看到表面。有时候,表面也是真相。这不能表明我们一家人有多善良,生活层次有多高。只觉得,鼓励儿子做一些力所能及的事情,尤其与人的和谐与互助,还有正确对待他人不幸的态度。我觉得这才是最重要的。我年少时候,在农村,家里穷,苦是必然的,除了父母和几位近亲,也没机会 Starting from the age of two, every time I take my son to Jiuquan or elsewhere and meet with a beggar, my wife and I have to give the son a few dollars for him to send in and ask him to pay attention to the ways, including expression and delivery Actions. At that time, we were still in the Badain Jaran Desert in the northwest, and it was hard for families to go out together on holidays. Every time I see the unfortunate in the street, my wife and I have to do some small things in person. Whether those are true or false, personal fraud or gang crime. We only see the surface. Sometimes the surface is the truth. This does not show how kindly our family is and how high our living standards are. Only think, encourage son to do something within its ability, especially with people’s harmony and mutual assistance, as well as the correct treatment of others unfortunate attitude. I think this is the most important. When I was a young man, in the countryside, my family was poor and suffering was inevitable. There was no chance except for my parents and a few close relatives