去年年初,我有幸成为下一届领导的培养对象之一。高兴之余我却发现自己的工作和生活在悄然发生着变化。工作中原本最好的伙伴开始暗地和我较起了劲,生活上也不再像原来那样向我敞开心扉了,甚至还做了对不起我的事情。后来一个偶然的机会,我了解到原来她是领导的另一个培养对象,我一下子就明白过来了。我虽然能理解她,但是心里还是很难过,我不知怎样才能缓和我们之间的关系。说实话,在荣誉和鼓励面前我并不快乐,反而像是有包袱压在心底无法释然,因为我发现当工作出于某种目的的时候,原本带给我的那份快乐也早已荡然无存了。请宽心小站的朋友帮帮我,我怎样才能找回那份心灵的宁静和快乐? Early last year, I was fortunate to be one of the leaders for the next leadership. Happy while I found my work and life are quietly changing. The best partners in the workplace began secretly and I compare themselves, life is no longer as it had opened up to me, and even did I’m sorry for my things. Later, by chance, I learned that she was the leader of another training object, and I suddenly understand it. Although I can understand her, but I still feel very sad, I do not know how to ease the relationship between us. To tell you the truth, I was not happy before honor and encouragement. Instead, I felt unburied because of my burden because I found that when the work was done for some purpose, the happiness that had been brought to me was long gone. It’s Please benevolent station friends help me, how can I find that soul of peace and happiness?