幼儿园里，“看谁最聪明”“看谁最棒”“看谁最听话”之类的话，每位老师都说过，也经常用这些话来鼓励每个班上的孩子，目的是激发幼儿的上进心，促进幼儿的竞争意识，更好地学习、成长。在教学活动中，我却发现此类话存在着弊端。比如，我班有个女孩叫高绮绮。她机灵、懂事 Everyone in the kindergarten said “to see who is the smartest,” “to see who is the best,” “to see who is the most obedient,” and every teacher has often said that these words are also often used to encourage children in every class to motivate young children The motivation to promote children’s sense of competition, better learning and growth. In teaching activities, I found that there are disadvantages of such words. For example, my class has a girl called Qi Yee. She is clever and sensible