儿子今年15岁,刚读初中二年级,还没有到跨出家门自立的时候。可就在这几十平方米的家里,我们却以写信的方式沟通交流了,这比我要等儿子“出息”以后再写信的美好计划足足提前了五年。倒不是我要过早地对儿子进行“文化”熏陶,也不是有什么难言之隐不便面谈,而是儿子成长的足迹催促着我要尽快与他的心灵对话。那是期中考试后的一个下午,我去学校参加家长会,教室公布的考试结果明白地告诉我:儿子的学 15-year-old son, just read the second year of junior high school, has not yet reached the time of self-reliance. But in these dozens of square meters of home, we have to communicate the way the letter, which is better than my son to be “good news” and then write a good plan a full five years ahead of schedule. It is not that I have to “culture” my son prematurely, nor is there any unspeakable inconvenience to interviews, but my son’s growing footsteps urged me to talk to his soul as soon as possible. It was an afternoon after the midterm exam, I went to school to attend the Parents Club, and the results of the exams released in the classroom clearly told me: