我们经常听到上司与员工之间类似下面的对话——领导:上周让你做的PPT怎么还没发给我?员工:上周有个紧急情况,电脑坏了……领导:没做完怎么不提前跟我说明一下?员工:上周净忙着修电脑了,IT还休假了……领导:既定任务如果不能按时完成,一定让我提前知道,其他的别说了!以上这段对话是我亲耳听到的,当时我就觉得很好笑。这个员工完全“沉浸”在自己的逻辑里面,根本没有听领导在说什么。不管什么原因,答应别人的事情,如果 We often hear conversations between executives and employees similar to the following: Leadership: How did PPT for you last week have not been sent to me? Employee: Last week there was an emergency and the computer was broken ... Leader: Did not finish How to not explain to me in advance? Staff: Last week, the net is busy repairing the computer, IT also on vacation ... ... Leadership: The established task if not completed on time, must let me know in advance, the other not to mention! I heard it with my own ears, I felt very funny at that time. The employee was completely “immersed” in his own logic, did not listen to what the leader was saying. Whatever the reason, promise someone else’s things if