《弟子规》三字一韵,朗朗上口。它从孝道、忠、义、礼、智、信到求学,详实生动,把家庭教育与生活教育合为一体,贴近孩子的生活实际。《弟子规》教孩子如何处理与父母的关系。孩子生活于家庭之中,家人之间的矛盾肯定会影响到孩子。当家人之间发生矛盾的时候,孩子可能会很困惑——管还是不管?《弟子规》中说:“亲有过,谏使更,怡吾色,柔无声。谏不入,悦复谏;号泣随,挞无怨。”大意是说:当父母亲有过失的时候,做子女的要去劝说。如果父母不能接受,要再去劝,甚至可以哭着去劝,即使因此而挨打也要毫无怨言。我在教这两句的时候,给学生 “Disciple rules” a rhyme, catchy catchy. It from filial piety, loyalty, righteousness, ritual, wisdom, letter to school, detailed and vivid, family education and life education as one, close to the child’s real life. “Disciple rules” teach children how to deal with their parents. Children living in the family, the conflict between family will certainly affect the child. When the conflict between family members, the child may be very confused - the tube or not? “Disciple rule” said: “Pro have had, remonstrance to make more, Yi Wu color, soft silent. Remonstrance; No. weeping, tart without complaint. ”The effect is to say: When parents have a mistake, do their children to persuade. If parents can not accept, to persuade, and even can cry to persuade, even if so beaten without complaint. I am teaching these two sentences to the students