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湖北省襄樊宋大姐来信说其女儿每个星期天一回到家,就会提出各种要求:“同学们都买新球鞋了,我的球鞋一点也不好看,太丢人了,我要买新鞋。”“我的衣服太旧,人家笑话我家是捡破烂收来的。你什么时候给我买件新的?”。孩子大了有了攀比心理,这能理解。但是家里经济条件并不太好,孩子每次提出要求,家长都很为难。可又不知道有什么方法可以既不伤害女儿的自尊,又能消除攀比心理。
Sister Song, Xiangfan, Hubei Province, said that her daughter returns home every Sunday and will make various requests: “The students buy new shoes, my shoes are not looking good, too shameful, I want to buy new shoes. ”“ My clothes are too old, people joke my family is picking up broken income.When do you buy me a new? ”. Big children have comparisons psychology, which can understand. However, the economic conditions at home are not very good. Every time a child requests it, parents are in a dilemma. But do not know what methods can not harm her daughter’s self-esteem, but also to eliminate comparisons psychology.