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现如今,大家都较重视人际交往中“情商”的巨大作用。“情商”与“智商”一样,是一个心理概念。关于“智商”,“辞海”里是这样解释的:“智商——即‘智力商数’,表示人的智力发展水平。”并且有公式,可计算出某人的“智商”高低。关于“情商”辞海里没有列这一条目,因为它是新近的“舶来品”,由美国哈佛大学心理系教授丹尼尔·戈尔曼在1995年出版的一本书中提出来的。现见于报端的“EQ”即“情商”英语缩写,“LQ”是“智商”的英语缩写。那么,何谓“情商”呢?仿照智商释法,“情商”即“情绪商数”,表示人的一种驾驭自己的能力,充分发挥自己的情感、情绪、意志、思想等,去实现自己目标的能力。情商是一种智慧,是一种心灵的力量,是一种准确把握自己的内动力;情商是一种涵养,是一种修炼自己更加完美愉悦他人的技能;情商是无时不
Nowadays, everybody values the great role of “emotional intelligence” in interpersonal communication. EQ, like IQ, is a psychological concept. As for “IQ,” “Cihai” is explained as follows: “IQ - the quotient of intelligence quotient, indicates the level of intellectual development of a person.” And there is a formula for calculating one’s “IQ” level. The article “EQ” is not listed in the sea because it is a recent “exotic” by the University of Harvard psychology professor Daniel Goleman in 1995 published a book. Now seen in the newspaper’s “EQ” or “EQ” English abbreviation, “LQ” is “IQ” in English abbreviations. Then, what is meant by “emotional intelligence”? According to IQ interpretation, “emotional intelligence” or “emotional quotient” means a person’s ability to control himself, give full play to his emotions, emotions, will, thoughts and so on to achieve his goal Ability. EQ is a kind of intelligence, is a kind of spiritual power, is an accurate grasp of their inner power; EQ is a conservation, is a practice of their more perfect pleasure of others skills; EQ is always