现今的孩子,由于家庭都是独身子女,长辈对其小一辈的孩子备受宠爱,都抱着是“含在嘴里怕融掉,放在手心怕化掉”的心理在对待孩子,继而形成依赖性强、娇气、任性,以自我为中心的不良习惯。有的孩子不喜欢开口说话,有的则自由散漫,没有集体规则意识。在班级里,发现了一例因为大便失禁继而产生自卑心理的幼儿,在分析、诊断和具体措施实施的情况下,与家长共同努力,促进幼儿身心健康和谐发展。 Today’s children, because the family is a single child, elders are much loved by their younger children, are holding the “in his mouth afraid of melting, on the hands of the fear of turning away ” mentality in treating children , And then form a strong dependence, delicate, self-willed, self-centered bad habits. Some children do not like to speak, others are free and easy, there is no sense of collective rules. In the class, a child who developed inferiority due to fecal incontinence was found to work with parents to promote healthy and harmonious development of children’s physical, mental and psychological health under the circumstances of analysis, diagnosis and implementation of specific measures.