有人说,家庭教育是一门艺术,而父母则是艺术家。的确,初生的婴儿宛如一卷空白画册,当他们迈进学校、步入社会时,却已打上底色。那么,如何涂上最佳的底色?现代家庭的教养重点是什么?值得家长认真地思考。一项调查表明,许多家长花费在孩子身上的时间和精力,都集中在智力和知识方面。他们不是开发智力、传授知识,就是培养孩子的一技之长。至于孩子品德、个性的培养,只有小部分家长将其作为重点。在我们深入考察时发现,家长感到困惑最多的,并不是孩子的智力和学习问题,也不是生理和健康问题, Some people say that family education is an art, while parents are artists. Indeed, newborn babies are like blank rolls of pictures, and they have been ground-colored when they step into schools and enter the community. So, how to paint the best background? What is the focus of modern family upbringing? It is worth pondering seriously. According to one survey, the time and energy many parents spent on their children focused on intelligence and knowledge. They are not developing intelligence, imparting knowledge, that is, cultivating their skills. As for the cultivation of children’s moral character and personality, only a few parents regard it as the key point. In our in-depth study found that parents are most confused, not the child’s intellectual and learning problems, nor is it a physical and health problems,