一位年轻人请教一位智看:“当同意别人的思想、观点和看法时,如何表达呢?”“举一只手,而不举两只。”智者说。“为什么呢?”年轻人问。“举一只手,就表示了同意和赞成。”智者说。“举两只手,不是表示更同意、更赞成吗?”年轻人说。“人只有在投降时,才会举两只手。举两只手,性质就会发生变化,你的同意和赞成,就成了屈从,成了一种奴性的膜拜。”智者说,“所以,哪怕是表达同意别人的思想、观点和看法,也要留有余地,也要‘留一手’,不能 A young man asks one to see: ”How do you express one’s consent when agreeing with one’s thoughts, opinions, and opinions?“ ”Hold one hand, not two,“ said the wise man. ”Why??“ Young people asked. ”Raise one hand, expressed consent and approval. “ The wise man said. ”Hold two hands, is not to agree more, more in favor?“ Young people said. ”People will lift both hands only when they surrender. With both hands, the nature will change, and with your consent and approval, you have become subservient and have become a servile worship.“ ”The wise man said, "Therefore, even if it is to express consent to other people’s thinking, views and opinions, but also leave room for, but also ’stay one hand, can not