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刚上大学那会儿,我曾经一度这样过日子:为了留给别人一个好印象,为了避免别人说闲话,便千方百计地掩饰自己,完全以别人的眼光来决定自己的言行举止。由于过分在意别人对自己的看法和评价,弄得自己整天为了博得别人的好评而过日子。后来,我渐渐明白:这样活着实在太累。虽然有时会受益得利,但总感觉在夹着尾巴做人。既担心别人窥见自己真实的一面,又没有勇气正视自己。再后来我终于开窍:其实,根本没有必要自己折磨自己,为人处世要紧的是自己怎样做人,而不是别人怎样
When I first came to college, I used to live like this for a time: in order to give others a good impression and to avoid gossip, I tried my best to cover myself up and decided my behavior completely from others’ eyes. Due to overly concerned about others on their own views and evaluation, made myself all day in order to win the praise of others and live. Later, I gradually realized that it was too tired to live in this way. Although sometimes benefit from profits, but always feel tucked his tail. Not only worried about the real side of others glimpse of their own, there is no courage to face myself. Then finally I finally get it back: In fact, there is no need to torture yourself, what we have to do is what we do, not how others behave