我所写的那篇文章,主要是针对一些家长过分关心孩子而疏于发展自己而言的。这些家长以牺牲自己的发展为代价,一心扑在孩子身上。这种对自身资源的轻视,对社会来说无疑是一种浪费。我们知道,当一个新的家庭建立后,夫妻关系的形成和双方各自的发展首先成为家庭建设的主要内容。夫妻双方都以各自对事业和幸福的追求,给对方以鼓励,从而构成了家庭稳定的基石。以后,随着孩子的诞生,新的家庭关系的形成,新的亲子关系的形成,孩子的抚养和教育等问题又成为家庭生活的重要内容。这种新的变化确实给年轻父母 The essay I wrote is mainly aimed at parents who care too much about their children and neglect their own development. These parents at the expense of their own development for the price, bent on the child. This neglect of its own resources is undoubtedly a waste to society. We know that after the establishment of a new family, the formation of the husband-wife relationship and the respective development of both parties have become the main contents of family construction in the first place. Both spouses, with their own pursuit of cause and happiness, encourage each other and thus form the cornerstone of family stability. Later, with the birth of a child, the formation of a new family relationship, the formation of a new parent-child relationship, the raising and education of children, etc., have become an important part of family life. This new change does give young parents