“顽皮鬼”不一定都成坏孩子 传统的教育最看重“乖孩子”的培养。一个幼童只要行为稍有点偏离预定的“听话”之道.那十之八九会遭到父母或长辈的训斥。可事实上孩子们的“顽皮”或“行为怪异”常常与某种独创性格相联系。 心理学的研究早就告诉我们.富独创性格的人往往具有这样一些特征:他可能不被现存生活模式所束缚.而会极力挣脱各种桎梏:他会有一种旺盛的好奇心和创造性,更有丰富的想象力与冲动性:他那对事物的广泛兴趣使得他不可能按部就班行事.问题越富有刺激性.对他来说.就越充满迎接挑战的勇气;但他并不是一无所好.一旦他自已作出了选择.往往就会以满腔的热忱和缜密的心思专注于它。 或许正是因上述特征的存在.富独创性格的人所表现出和一些特殊行为方式通常会被一般人视作是“怪僻的个性”。既已如此.他们在未成“大才”前.就 “Playful ghost” is not necessarily a bad boy Traditional education most valued “good boy” training. A young child will be reprimanded by his parents or elders as long as his actions deviate slightly from the intended “obedience.” In fact, children’s “naughty” or “weird behavior” often associated with some original personality. Psychological studies have long taught us that a person who is original in character tends to be characterized by the fact that he may not be bound by the existing mode of living but will rather break free from all kinds of grudges: he will have a strong curiosity and creativity, and more Rich in imagination and urgency: his wide interest in things made it impossible for him to work step by step, and the more irritating the question was, the more courage he could face to meet the challenges; but he did not do anything good Once he has made his own choice, he tends to focus on it with his passion and meticulous attention. Perhaps because of the existence of the above characteristics, the characters who show the unique characters and some special behaviors are usually regarded by most people as “eccentric personality.” This is the case, they are not “great talent” before