京剧里那咬牙切齿、横着膀子出场的黑头想必大家都很熟悉,当他开始呀呀大叫的时候,人们就知道他马上要唱了,这就是“叫板”。不单戏曲里需要“叫板”,现实生活中需要“叫板”的事情也很多,小到家庭琐事,大到一个组织的管理、国家公共管理、执法等,不胜枚举。比如父母教育自己的孩子,当遇到孩子大闹特闹、无法无天时,父母实在忍不住就总要唬起脸对孩子吼一句:“你再这样不听话我就要打你屁股了。”话是说了,可手并没有忍心打下去,因为父母期望通过震慑、威吓能起到作用。但当孩子发现父母只不过是吓唬吓唬他时,就根本不会 Peking Opera in the gnash, horizontal black appearance presumably everyone is familiar, when he started yelling, people will know that he wanted to sing, this is “challenge.” There are many things that need to be “challenged” in real life, ranging from family trifles to organization management, state public administration and law enforcement. For example, parents educate their children when faced with children to make fun of, lawlessness, parents could not help but always bluff face roar the child: “If you do not obey I will hit you ass.” Words are said, can not hand and did not have the heart to fight down, because parents expect through deterrence, intimidation can play a role. But when the child discovers that the parents are merely scaring and scaring him, they simply do not