很多人都认为,夫妻之间亲密无间,谈话时无所顾忌方才显得真诚。其实不然,无所顾忌的谈话往往带给对方不快。在和已婚男女交谈时,常常会听到这样的抱怨:“我丈夫从来不听我的,他老责怪我唠叨。”“我老婆大事小事总喜欢挑起争论,她总爱将家里的私事向女友透露。”语言学家泰曼对此分析说,“男式谈话”与“女式谈话”在表达方式上有着“天壤之别”。人类学家曼尔茨与语言学家鲍吉合作进行的一项研究更 Many people think that intimacy between husband and wife, talk without hesitation just seemed sincere. In actual fact, unscrupulous conversation often bring each other unhappy. When I talk to married men and women, I often hear such complaints: “My husband never listened to me, he always blamed me for nagging. ” “My wife always likes to provoke controversy, The private affairs of the family will be disclosed to his girlfriend. ”The linguist Terman said that “ men’s talk ”and “ women’s talk ”in the expression of“ there is a world of difference. ” Anthropologist Manz and linguist Baoji cooperation in a more study