真正的宽恕是在原谅对方的过错后能忘记自己做出的原谅。念念不忘你的原谅,说明你仍在耿耿于怀,内心仍在记恨对方。这不能算是宽恕,充其量不过是做出一个伪君子的姿态给人看罢了。还有一种人念念不忘自己的原谅,是希望对方报恩。这是一种最可恶的宽恕,用宽恕来做交易,其实无异? True forgiveness is the forgiveness that you can forget yourself after forgiving each other’s faults. Do not forget your forgiveness, that you are still heartbroken, the heart still hate each other. This can not be regarded as forgiveness, at best, but a gesture of hypocrisy is given. There is also a person who never forget their own forgiveness, is to hope that the other gratitude. This is one of the most abominable forgiveness, in fact, forgiveness to do the transaction, in fact, no different?