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有人说,女人心,海底针。因为女人性格敏感细腻,容易受到伤害,在情感上也会有更多的困惑,下面是在心理门诊中遇到的典型事例,也许能给人一些启示。问:我丈夫是一家公司的经理,常常有业务上的应酬,我对他一直很信任,很少问他的事,直到有一次,他说是和外商谈判,我却发现他是和一位女同事吃饭而没有回家,我不明白他为什么要骗我。那以后,不管他说什么,我都很难相信他,每当他晚回家,我就想象他是不是又在和别的女人来往,心里痛苦万分,我怎样才能摆脱烦恼?答:夫妻间的信任关系在婚后数十年的时间里,并不是一成不变的,也不是完全对等的,有时你信任他,但他不一定信任你,反过来也一样,这并不是人品
Some people say that the woman’s heart, the sea needles. Because women are sensitive and delicate personality, easy to be hurt, emotionally, there will be more confusion, the following is a typical case of psychological clinics encountered may give some inspiration. Q: My husband is the manager of a company and often has business entertainment. I have always trusted him and seldom asked him anything until one time he said that he negotiated with foreign businessmen and I found out he and I Female colleagues did not go home to eat, I do not understand why he lied to me. After that, no matter what he said, I could hardly believe him. Whenever he came home late, I imagined he was not going back and forth with other women. What a pain I had? How could I get out of my worries? A: The relationship of trust is not immutable or decades-old after marriage. Sometimes you trust him, but he does not trust you, and vice versa, this is not a character