爸爸妈妈经常会苦口婆心地对孩子说:“你一定要好好学习啊,上课要认真听讲,做作业要仔细。”但孩子有时候犯过的错误依然会犯,出现的问题依然还会出现。从儿童发展心理学的角度上来谈,儿童的成长是有其一定的发展规律的,就像树苗长成参天大树一样,都有一个过程,都需要一些经历。父母过多的干涉和担心,好似拔苗助长,不但起不了作用,反倒会给孩子带来成长的负面影响, Mom and Dad often earnestly say to their children: “You must learn well ah, class should carefully listen to homework to be careful. ” But the child made mistakes may still be committed, the problems still occur . From the point of view of children’s developmental psychology, children’s growth has its own laws of development. Just as a sapling grows into a towering tree, there is a process that requires some experience. Excessive parental interference and worry, as if to promote growth and weakness, not only can not help but bring the negative impact of growth on the contrary,