当你和孩子其乐融融时,你一定是和颜悦色,可当孩子不听话,把你的话当耳旁风时,你的声调难免越来越高,嗓门越来越大,一阵暴风骤雨后,孩子哭着耍起了脾气,你也板着脸,既没有取得孩子的合作,也失去了教育他的最佳机会。所以,当你和孩子之间的冲突升级时,我们需要的是一个能够透过事件的表象,准确把握孩子心理,并且用语言循循善诱的家长。但是如何才能成为“会说话”的家长呢? When you are happy with your children, you must be pleasant, but when the children disobedient, when your words are off the wind, your tone is inevitably higher and higher, louder and louder, a burst of violence, the child began to cry Temper, you also face a face, neither to obtain the cooperation of children, but also lost his best chance of education. So when the conflict between you and your child escalated, what we needed was a parent who was able to use the appearance of the incident to accurately grasp the child’s psychology and to use language to induce. But how to become a “talking” parents?