心理学者在与人沟通的过程中,往往喜欢创造一种舒适的氛围,让与自己沟通的人觉得安逸,然后放松心理警戒,公开、诚实地表达自己的想法。在这种情况下,如果让一个人自由地谈论自己,最终我们会发现不管他之前的心理戒备多么强烈,最终肯定会在某个时刻释放出自己的潜意识,脱口而出真实的想法。 Psychologists often like to create a comfortable atmosphere to communicate with others, feel comfortable with the people they communicate with, and then relax their mental alertness to express themselves openly and honestly. In this case, if one is allowed to talk about himself freely, eventually we will find that no matter how strong his previous psychological readiness is, he will eventually release his subconsciousness and blurt out his real thoughts at some point.