在3岁～6岁期间,孩子会在感情上更加依恋父母中的一方。这时只能有四种可能:恋父、恋母、全恋或者都不恋。人们习惯上把这种情况看作是亲情问题。如果孩子不依恋自己,有些人以为是因为自己爱得还不够,于是加倍弥补;有些人则觉得无所谓,尤其是那些感情较好的夫妻,常常觉得孩子亲谁都一样。其实,这是孩子在进行性别角色方面的认同,也就是说,既然孩子知道自己是男是女,也知道父母的性别,于是男孩子就需要格外亲近更有男性心理特征与 Between the ages of 3 and 6, children are more emotionally attached to one of their parents. At this time there are only four possibilities: Love father, Oedipus, all love or not love. People used to think of this as a matter of affection. Some people think it does not matter if they are not attached to themselves because some people think that it is because they do not have enough love and that some couples, especially those who feel better, often feel that their children are the same. In fact, this is the child’s identity in the role of gender, that is to say, since the children know that they are men and women, but also know the gender of the parents, so the boys need to be more close to the more male psychological characteristics and