大多数老师处理攀比时,由于专业学养不够,普遍处在刀耕火种阶段,不问为什么,只问怎么办……有一句经典台词:“你的朋友不及格,你感觉很糟;你的朋友考第一,你感觉更糟。”这种复杂的心理,瞬间抓住了全世界的影迷。为什么会这样?因为它说出了人人心中都有但又不愿说出的秘密。每个人内心都有攀比动机,都可能会因攀比而产生嫉妒,就算对自己最好的朋友也不例外。人 Most teachers deal with comparisons, due to lack of professional education, generally in the stage of slash and burn, do not ask why, just ask how to do ... ... there is a classic line: “your friend failed, you feel bad; your friend test First, you feel worse. ”" This complex psychology instantly captures the fans around the world. Why is this? Because it speaks secrets that everyone has but does not want to say. Compassionate motivation in everyone’s heart, may be jealous of the comparisons, even for their best friend is no exception. people