许多大学新生家长发现。孩子进入大学后存在适应问题,他们并不开心,相反,却遇到了很多烦恼,比如不适应大学的学习方法:和周围的同学合不来.感到孤独;因成绩、家庭经济条件、社交能力等方面的原因而自卑;不会料理自己的生活,等等。有些同学在遇到这些烦恼又不愿意让周围的人知道时,很自然地要向自己的父母诉说。但对这些问题,父母往往和孩子一样毫无思想准备,因此难免不忧心忡 Many college freshmen find out. Children are not happy when they enter college. On the contrary, they have encountered many troubles, such as not adapting to the university’s learning methods: they can not get along with their classmates, they feel lonely, they are still suffering from problems such as grades, family economic conditions and social skills Low self-esteem for reasons; not to take care of your own life, and so on. Some students in the face of these troubles and do not want to let people around to know, it is natural to tell their parents. But for these problems, parents are often as mentally prepared as their children, so it is inevitable that they will not be worried