东西方亲子教育是分别以“严”和“宽”为显著特征的两种典型模式,关于两种模式的优劣当前有着广泛的争论。在东西方文化融合的时代背景下,人们对两种模式各自的长处与劣势也看得越来越清楚,并进行着相应的调适。本文认为,以中国传统文化的“中庸之道”来践行,采取“宽严有度”的教育理念,或是东西方亲子教育思路调整的最佳选择。 Parent-child education in the East and the West are two typical models that are characterized by “strict” and “wide” respectively. There are currently widely debated the pros and cons of the two models. In the context of the integration of Eastern and Western cultures, people are more aware of the strengths and weaknesses of their respective modes and adapt accordingly. This paper argues that it is best to adopt the education philosophy of “leniency and degree” or “parentage” in the traditional Chinese culture.