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发问是孩子的天性,因为他们要学着适应复杂多变的环境。孩子会不会发问,能不能提出好问题,在很大程度上,要看父母(或者教师)对他们的问题如何反应。孩子的发问能力既可以培养,也会被扼杀。1.不要回绝问题。父母回绝孩子提出的问题,给孩子传达的基本信息是让孩子闭嘴,这样的问题不得体或令人讨厌,不要乱讲,要学会知趣。如果父母长期惩罚性的回绝问题,孩子就会不发问,变得排斥学习。
Questioning is the child’s nature, because they have to learn to adapt to the complex and changeable environment. Children will not ask, can raise good questions, to a large extent, depends on the parents (or teachers) how to respond to their problems. Children’s ability to ask questions can be nurtured and stifled. Do not reject the question Parents rejected the child’s question, the basic message to the child is to make the child shut up, this issue is inappropriate or annoying, do not chaos, learn to learn. If parents long-term punitive rejection of the problem, the child will not ask questions, become excluded from learning.