你是否有这样的经历——每次约会时,你们都会不欢而散?你衣着得体,干净利索,标准白领形象。你既没有对她进行身体上的威胁,也没有穿着爷爷的工作服出来,为什么她还对你投以鄙视的目光?多花一些时间,从她同伴那里也许能得到一些有用的信息:原来,你在她心目中是个大嘴巴。约会不是语言的交锋,也不是情感的审判台,更不是情绪的垃圾桶,如果你想在下次约会中快速提升你的形象,就要给自己的嘴巴装上个拉链。 Do you have such an experience - when dating, you will disagree? You dress properly, clean, standard white-collar image. You did not pose a physical threat to her nor did you wear your grandfather’s uniform. Why did she still look down on you? Spend some time and maybe some useful information from her peers: In her mind is a big mouth. Dating is not a language confrontation, nor is it an emotional courtroom, nor is it an emotional trash can. If you want to quickly improve your image on your next appointment, put a zip on your mouth.