教育家陶行知指出:“先生不应该专教书,他的责任是教人做人。学生不应当专读书,他的责任是学习人生之道。”实践证明,个人的人格魅力是决定人生是否成功的重要因素之一。但长期以来,学校教育和家庭教育在应试教育这根指挥棒的指导下走入了误区,成绩的好坏成为衡量学生优劣的重要标准,德育教育被搁置一边。 Tao Xingzhi, an educator, pointed out: “Sir should not be a teacher. His responsibility is to teach others how to behave. Students should not be a student, and his responsibility is to study life.” Practice has shown that personal charisma determines life One of the important factors of success. However, for a long time, school education and family education have gone wrong under the guidance of the test-oriented education. The performance is an important standard to measure the pros and cons of students. Moral education is put aside.