费孝通先生离开我们已经整十年了,但他的精神以及当年对我的教诲一直影响着我这些年来的工作与生活。先生的年纪、学识、身份和社会地位超出我们这些学生很远,我们要完全了解他和理解他是不容易的。来到他曾经工作过的中国社会科学院民族学与人类学研究所工作之后,与在社会学领域的感受相比,感觉对先生的理解更加深了一层。不论读书期间还是工作之后,费先生对我们的影响是非常巨大的、深远的。我和先生的直接交往可以分 Mr. Fei Xiaotong has been away from us for ten years, but his spirit and the teachings of the year to me have always influenced my work and life over the years. It is not easy for us to know him well and understand him because of his age, knowledge, status and social status far beyond those of us. When I came to work at the Institute of Ethnology and Anthropology at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences where he had worked, I felt a deeper understanding of my husband than I felt in the field of sociology. The impact of Mr. Fei on us is enormous and far-reaching, whether during or after school. My husband and I can direct the deal