在学校里,我发现有些学生越长越大,话却越来越少。小学高年级课堂上见不到一年级时唧唧喳喳、跃跃欲试的情景。举手、提问都少了,更没有商讨争论,老师在讲台眉飞色舞地唱独角戏,学生在座位上冷眼旁观。为了避免说话失误,讲话谨慎一些是应该的,其实并无不好。但是,人是社会的人,在集体中,要交流,要协调,要学习,要协作,这一切都要通过语言来表达,真正的成熟并不仅仅在于人长多大,也并不仅仅在于爱面子,而是会思想,会讲话,会交流。既要善于表达自己的思想,又要善于理解接受别人表达的思想。做到这一点并不难,首先从听课、答问开始练习。 At school, I found that some students grew bigger and bigger, but less and less words. Primary high school classroom not see the first year twitter, eager to take the scene. Instead of raising your hand and asking fewer questions, we did not discuss the controversy. The teacher sang a solo show in the podium and the students sit on their seats. In order to avoid speaking mistakes, some cautious speech should be, in fact, no bad. However, people are social people. In the community, it is necessary to communicate, to coordinate, to learn and to cooperation. All this must be expressed in words. The true maturity is not only about how long a person grows, , But will think, talk, communicate. We should not only be good at expressing our own ideas, but also be good at understanding and accepting the ideas expressed by others. To do this is not difficult, first from the lectures, answering questions to start practicing.