人总是处在各种关系之中。我们的人生开始于关系,我们一开始便是母亲的一部分。我们个体的发展也离不开关系。我提出的关怀伦理,就是一种关系伦理。这意味着教育应当从关系入手,而不是从个人、个体开始。在关怀伦理中,需要探讨处于关系中的关怀者和被关怀者所扮演的角色。关怀者要非常专注,非常注意倾听被关怀者,倾听他们的需要。当关怀者感觉到了“动机移位”时,“关 People are always in a variety of relationships. Our life starts with relationships, and from the very beginning we are part of our mother. The development of our individual can not be separated from the relationship. My proposed ethics of care is a relational ethic. This means that education should start with relationships rather than individuals and individuals. In the ethics of care, the role of caregivers and caregivers in relationships needs to be explored. Caregivers need to be very focused and listen attentively to their needs. When the caregiver feels ”motive shift “, ”off