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最近听到这么一则故事:有一对老夫妻,当他们得知自己的女儿要结婚的喜讯时,心里非常高兴。只因远隔千里,夫妇俩不能去参加女儿的现场婚礼,但他们给女儿写了一封长信,把自己多年的生活体会告诉了孩子,说:“就算是我们送你的一份新婚礼物吧。”女儿拆开信,第一句是:家,不是一个讲理的地方。他们说:“这句话乍听起来没有道理,但千真万确是至理,是多少夫妇、多少家庭用多少岁月、多少辛酸、多少爱恨、多少是非在纠缠不清难解难分的混乱中,梳理出来的一个结论。”“当夫妇之间开始据理力争时,家里便开始布上阴影。两人都会不自觉地抱着一堆面目全非的歪理,敌视对方,伤害对方,最后只能两败俱伤。多少夫妻,为了表面的一个‘理’,落得负心无情而后悔莫及。”女儿读罢这封信,不禁感慨万千。
I recently heard the story of an elderly couple who were very happy when they learned that their daughter was getting married. Just because thousands of miles away, the couple can not attend the daughter’s live wedding, but they wrote a long letter to her daughter, told his children many years of life experience, said: “Even if we send you a wedding Gift. ”“ Daughter opened the letter, the first sentence is: home, not a reasonable place. They say: ”This remark does not sound reasonable at first, but it really is the truth, how many couples, how many families use it, how much the family is bitter, how much love and hate, and how much is the confusion , A conclusion drawn from the card. “” When the couple began to argue with each other, the family began to cast a shadow .All will unconsciously holding a pile of unjust fallacies, hostile to each other, hurt each other, and finally Can only lose and lose.Many couples, in the face of a ’reason’, fell heartless and regrettable. "Daughter reading this letter, can not help but filled with emotion.