来信叶老师:您好,我叫小徐,现任某边检站执勤中队中队长,今年30岁。最近我感到很困惑,不知您是否能帮帮我?两年前,我开始利用休假时间参加亲朋好友介绍的相亲,有时一天甚至三四场相亲。休假结束,有的相亲是什么时候、在哪里都忘了,更别说这些女孩长什么样了?大大小小的相亲加起来也有二三十次了,然而事与愿违,到现在我都还没有牵过女孩子的手呢!这当中不排除我看不上别人的情况,但是大多数情况却是要么女 Letter from Mr. Ye: Hello, my name is Xiao Xu. I am currently working as a squadron leader of a frontier inspection squad and am 30 years old this year. Recently I was very confused, I wonder if you can help me? Two years ago, I began to take advantage of the vacation time to participate in relatives and friends introduced blind date, and sometimes one day or even three or four blind date. Leave the end, and some blind date is when, where forgot, let alone these girls look like? Big and small blind date add up to have twenty or thirty times, but things go back and forth, and now I have not yet led Girls hand over it! This does not rule out that I can not see others, but in most cases it is either female