很多时候,人都是生活在“两难”之中。因为人既是一种社会的存在,文化的存在,又是一种个体的存在,生命的存在。个体意愿与社会秩序、生命欲求与文化伦理之间,并非始终保持某种谐和的一致性。所以,生命不息,“两难”不止。这种“两难”的人生处境,确实能够呈现人类生命特有的丰饶与复杂。女真的短篇《老爸的家庭会议》就是如此。作家通过永久的三次家庭会议,将每一个人都推向“两难”的处境,使老父亲和他的三个子女 In many cases, people are living in “dilemma ”. Because man is both a social existence, the existence of culture, but also an individual existence, existence of life. Individual will and social order, life desires and cultural ethics, not always maintain a harmonious consistency. So, life is endless, “dilemma ” not only. This “dilemma ” life situation, can indeed show the richness and complexity of human life. Nuzhen really short “dad’s family meeting” is the case. Through three permanent family meetings, writers push everyone to a “dilemma,” so that the old father and his three children