林则徐有副对联：“‘海纳百川有容乃大：壁立千仞，无欲则刚”上联说的是为人处事要宽宏大量，上要斤斤计较，要有吞纳百川的胸襟否则，很难成就大业。心胸宽厂落到具体行动上就是能容事、容人，说穿了，就是能原谅他人，原谅他人的误解，原谅他人的过失”量小非君子”。就是 Lin Zexu vice couplet: “’Heiner rivers have tolerance is big: the wall thousands of miles, no desire is just’ on the couplet said that people should be generous and lenient, should be preoccupied with, must have the ability to absorb rivers or else it is difficult to accomplish great cause. Wisdom falls into the concrete action is able to tolerate things, to put it bluntly, that is, to forgive others, forgive the misunderstanding of others, forgive the negligence of others, ”a small amount of non-gentleman." That’s it