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现在老师们总是问:“我如何能让学生尊重我?他们在见到我之前就已经决定当我走进教室时表现得不尊重我了。”很明显,你是无法让所有人都尊重你的。你可以去要求他人尊重你,可这是无法强迫的。儿童已经理解了这个概念,所以他们偏要执拗下去,反抗你要求尊重。你的要求让他们觉得受到了侮辱,因为你明显是觉得他们不够聪慧,无法理解你与他们互动时的激情。所以你越是强迫他们尊重你,他们就越会感到受辱,就会对你越加不尊重。
Now teachers always ask: “How can I let students respect me? They decided before they met me that I didn’t show respect when I entered the classroom.” "Obviously, you can’t make everyone Respect yours. You can ask others to respect you, but this cannot be forced. Children have understood this concept, so they tend to stick to it and resist your demand for respect. Your request makes them feel insulted because you obviously feel that they are not smart enough to understand the passion you have when interacting with them. So the more you force them to respect you, the more they will feel humiliated and the more disrespectful of you.