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家长没有必要过度关心孩子的方方面面,孩子的任何一种能力都是在生活的经历中得到提升的。如果家长的教育方式一直令孩子反感,那孩子肯定不会把家长当成朋友。因此,家长要想成为孩子的朋友,有一个很重要的前提,那就是要了解孩子不喜欢什么样的教育方式。一位心理学家在一所小学里做过这样一个试验,他让这所小学的孩子写出他们最不喜欢的家长的行为。结果,有80%的孩子都写到了“唠叨”这个词。当心理学家让写到“唠叨”这个词的孩子讲讲自
Parents do not need to over-care about all aspects of children, any one of the child’s ability to enhance life experience. If the parent’s education has always been offensive to the child, the child will certainly not treat the parent as a friend. Therefore, parents want to be their children’s friends, there is a very important premise, that is, to understand what kind of children do not like education. A psychologist who did such a test in a primary school made the children of this primary school write down the behaviors of their least loved parents. As a result, 80% of children wrote the word “nagging.” When psychologists let children who write the word “nagging” talk about themselves