在现实生活中,我们总会遇到这样或那样的“不顺”。“不顺”现象是一种客观存在,有其必然性,也有其偶然性。当它摆在我们的面前,如何对待,确实反映了一个人的综合素质。有的人为什么远离成功,不是他机遇少、能力差,可能就是在“不顺”问题上把握不住自己,即自制能力不强,以至“情绪化”问题成为影响发展的一大障碍。所谓自制力就是个人对自己行为的克制能力。良好的自制力是以个人良好的综合素质为基础,是一种理智 In real life, we always encounter this or that “not smooth ”. “Not smooth ” phenomenon is an objective existence, has its inevitability, also has its chance. When it is placed in front of us, how to treat it really reflects the overall quality of a person. The reason why some people are far away from success is not that they have less chances but poor ability. They may not be able to grasp themselves on the issue of “imperfect”, that is, the self-control ability is not strong and the problem of “emotionalization” has become one Big hurdle The so-called self-control is the individual’s ability to restrain one’s own behavior. Good self-control is based on a good overall quality of individuals, is a kind of reason