去年,我的一个朋友选择了结束生命,他是清华大学的博士,在别人眼里年轻有为,前途无量。其实很多人都有孤独、迷惘、甚至想到此为止的念头,但并不是所有的人都能有这个勇气。知识分子,尤其是优秀的知识分子,往往会让自己背负一个沉重的理想,当他发现理想与现实之间存在着巨大的差距和鸿沟的时候,失望是很自然的。人往往会跟别人比,我在跟这个清华的博士比的时候也自惭形秽。他是一直读下来的博士,比我年轻,而且一毕业就进入了非常好的公司工作,妻子在读心理学博士。从我的角度 Last year, one of my friends chose to end her life. He is a Ph.D. in Tsinghua University. He is young and promising in the eyes of others. In fact, many people have loneliness, confusion, and even thought of this idea, but not all people have the courage. Intellectuals, especially outstanding intellectuals, tend to carry a heavy ideal of themselves. When he finds that there is a huge gap and gap between ideal and reality, disappointment is quite natural. People tend to be worse than others, and I am ashamed of myself when compared with this doctor at Tsinghua University. He was a Ph.D. who has been reading down, younger than me, and entered a very good corporate job as soon as he graduated, and his wife was studying psychology. in my point of view