印象里的日本是一个带着孤独气质的国家,每个人都专注于自己面前的事情,对周围的事情漠不关心。据日本人自己讲,独自一人是因为不知道对方会怎么想怎么看,所以不想给别人添麻烦。笔者来到日本之后,感触最深的便是日本人与人交往中所表现出的疏离感,即使是认识很久的同学、朋友,依然会使用敬语对话,行为上恭恭敬敬、客客气气,似 Japan in the impression is a country with loneliness. Everyone is focused on the things that are in front of you and indifferent to the surrounding things. According to the Japanese themselves, alone because they do not know how to think each other how to look, so do not want to give others trouble. The author came to Japan, the deepest feeling is the Japanese people in the interaction shown in the sense of alienation, even for a long time students, friends, will still use the honorific dialogue, respectful behavior, courteous, like