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男人可以有一个红颜知己,女人也可以拥有一个如兄如父的蓝颜知己。但蓝颜知己不是男友,也不是爱人,更不是情人。做蓝颜知己首先要恪守界限——重情义、关心你、理解你、爱护你;重缘分,幽默、风趣、睿智;重道义,有阅历、有年龄、有情调。有阅历的男人,在事业上可以帮助你,在生活中能够提醒你。当你在工作中遇见难题、在红尘里迷失方向时,他会真诚地给你扶持、建议、勇气。有年龄的男人,庄重、沉稳、有气魄。当你无助时可以给你依靠,当你情绪低沉时可以给你安慰,当你遭遇痛苦时可以帮你度过。
Men can have a confidante, a woman can also have a brotherhood as a confidante. However, confidante is not a boyfriend, nor a lover, nor is it a lover. Do blue confidante first must abide by the boundaries - heavy love, care about you, understand you, love you; heavy fate, humor, wit, wisdom; heavy moral, have experience, have age, have mood. Experienced men can help you in your career and remind you in your life. He will sincerely give you support, advice and courage when you encounter problems in your work and lose your way in the red. Men of age, dignified, steady, bold. You can rely on helplessness when you are helpless, give you comfort when you’re feeling depressed, and help you when you’re in pain.