读者提问:我跟先生结婚已经有十多年,也有个七岁的女儿,本来我认为我们家庭是很幸福的。可是最近一次偶然机会,我意外地发现丈夫在外还有女朋友,而且已经来往有两年多,这让我很惊讶,也非常生气,不知该怎么办。同时我也很自责,责备自己没有尽到做妻子的职责,才让丈夫在外发生婚外情。您能帮我走出现在的困境吗? Readers’ questions: I married my husband for more than ten years and a seven-year-old daughter. Originally, I thought our family was very happy. However, I was surprised and very angry at the recent accidental discovery of my husband’s girlfriend by surprise. I have been experiencing more than two years. I do not know what to do. At the same time I am also very self-blame, blame myself did not do my wife’s job, let her husband out of extra-marital affairs. Can you help me get out of my predicament?