在婚姻方面,社会上流传着很多“准则”:每晚同床睡、双方必须坦诚、毫无保留……事实上,这些“婚姻准则”是误传,不仅无益于夫妻关系,还可能产生负面影响。错误一:不要生气时上床休息心理学家伊丽莎白·隆巴尔多博士表示,在疲惫且有压力的情况下试图解决夫妻二人间的问题是不会有什么结果的。她建议:“暂时搁置分歧,上床休息,等大家都心平气和时再解决问题。”错误二:相互要百分百的诚实 In marriage, there are many “rules” circulated in the community: sleeping with each bed every night, both parties must be frank and have no reservations. In fact, these “rules of marriage” are misinformation and not only do not benefit the relationship between husband and wife, It may also have a negative impact. Mistake I: Going to bed when you’re not angry Psychologist Elizabeth Lombardo said he would not have any problem trying to solve the couple’s problem under stress and exhaustion. She suggested: “Temporarily shelve disagreements, go to bed and rest and wait until everyone is calm.” Errors II: To be 100% honest with each other