为人处世,温和与友善会比愤怒和暴力更为有用,因为太阳比风能更快使人脱下大衣。有一则古老的寓言:风和太阳两方为谁的能量大相互争论不休。一天,它们看到一个老人走在路上,风说:“我来证明我能比你更快使他脱掉大衣。”于是太阳藏在乌云后面,风开始拼命地吹,愈吹愈大,大到像一场飓风,但是,风刮得越猛烈,老人越是把大衣紧裹在身上。终于,风平息下来,放弃了。太阳从云后露面,暖暖 To be human, mildness and friendliness are more useful than anger and violence because the sun takes the coat off faster than the wind. There is an old fable: the wind and the sun for whom the energy debate each other endlessly. One day they saw an old man walking down the road and the wind said: “I’m going to prove that I can get him off your coat more quickly than you.” So the sun hid behind dark clouds and the wind began to blow as hard as he could As large as a hurricane, however, the more violent the wind, the more the elderly wrapped in a coat on the body. Finally, the wind calm down and gave up. After the sun appeared from the clouds, warm