2009年9月,母亲去世,次年1月,父亲也走了,我在45岁时成了孤儿。有人说当父母双亡时,你才真正成年。如果这话是真的,那我则走完了一段长得离谱的青春期。其实上,我应该感到欣慰,我父母做了很多人希望自己父母能做的事:漫长的退休生活中他们互相照应,相依相伴直到高龄,最终在短期内相继过世,未受孤寂之苦。尽管他们的身体有诸多不便——父亲眼睛看不见,母亲耳朵很背,又有关节炎,但他俩一直住在自己家里,直到90岁。有时我会接到这样的电话:“厨房的灯泡坏了,你能来一趟吗?”爸,我有采访任务。清洁工不能做吗?“她明 Her mother died in September 2009, and in January the following year her father was gone, and I was orphaned at age 45. Some people say that when parents die, you are the real adult. If this is true, then I am finished a period of outrageous adolescence. In fact, I should be relieved that my parents did what many people want their parents to do: They take care of each other in the long retirement life, accompany each other until they are old, and eventually die shortly afterwards without suffering from loneliness. Although their bodies have many inconveniences - father’s eyes can not be seen, mother’s ears are back, and arthritis, but they have lived in their own homes until the age of 90. Sometimes I get a call like this: ”The kitchen bulb is broken, can you come for a trip?“ ”Dad, I have an interview assignment. Cleaners can not do it? "She said