舒楠老师:我从事综合管理工作十几年。去年部门来了一位才工作了几年的大学生。今年由于企业调整,这位大学生成了我的直接主管。我也非常欣赏他的工作,他对我也还是很尊重的。可我心里还是酸溜溜的,很不是滋味,想调一下工作,可又没有合适的岗位可以选择,这样下去又总感到抬不起头来。甚至怀疑自己的能力,真不想干了。一位困惑的女士陈陈女士:你好!非常理解你现在不平衡的心理状态。人都有一个比较心理,确切地说人就是在比较中生活,既生活在别人的眼中,又生活在自己的内心:“我不能比别人差。”这可以看出你是一个非常要强、上进的女士,当下级超越了自己成了自己的上司时,出现了内心的不平衡,这很正常。同时,我也非常敬 Shu Nan teacher: I am engaged in comprehensive management of more than 10 years. Last year the department came to a college student who had only worked for a few years. This year as a result of corporate restructuring, the university student became my direct supervisor. I also very much appreciate his work, he is still very respectful of me. But my heart is still sour, it is not taste, want to transfer some work, but there is no suitable position to choose, so down and always felt unable to lift the head. Even doubt their ability, really do not want to do it. Ms. Chen Chen, a puzzled woman: Hello! Very understand your current unbalanced state of mind. People have a more psychological, that is to say, people are living more in the comparison, both living in the eyes of others, but also live in their own hearts: “I can not be worse than others. ” This shows that you are a very strong The progressive lady, when the subordinate surpassed himself to become his own boss, appeared an imbalance of heart, which is normal. At the same time, I am very respectful