批评与被批评都不是一件令人愉快的事。如果批评者能够做到实事求是，并且对被批评者有足够的尊重和善意，这样的批评会比较容易让人接受。相反，轻率的批评会引起对方不满，因而应尽量避免。 不要动辄上升到道德的高度：一个女孩，在补车摊上给自行车打完气，正好遇见两个同学 Criticism and criticism are not a delightful thing. If critics can be pragmatic and have enough respect and goodwill toward those who are critics, such criticism will be more acceptable. On the contrary, reckless criticism can cause dissatisfaction with each other and should therefore be avoided. Do not rise to a moral high: a girl, get a breathable bike at the pay stall, just met two classmates