在讨论强势家长的时候,我们首先要弄清楚强势的家长是怎么产生的。人际交往中,强势是一个相对的概念,通常是指处于优势地位,更具掌控力的一方。在我们的一贯经验里,老师与家长的交往中,老师是更处于强势的一方,因为交流的焦点是学生,交流的问题是教育,而这个,显然作为专业教育者的老师应该具有更多的发言权。但在实际生活中,事情却没这么简单,如今师道尊严的观念已经不再时兴,在很多人看来,教师更 In discussing the strong parents, we must first figure out how the strong parents are produced. In interpersonal communication, strength is a relative concept, usually refers to the dominant position, more control of the party. In our consistent experience, teachers are more in a stronger position in the interaction between teachers and parents. Because the focus of communication is students, the problem of communication is education. This, obviously, teachers as professional educators should have more say. However, in real life, things are not so simple. Nowadays the concept of teacher-dignity is no longer fashionable. In many people’s view, teachers