对他人不满,是内在压力和自恋情结的折射。张妍是一家外企的后勤部门主管。她对一些下属总是很不满意,对下属做事和解决问题的方式总是看不顺眼。当她指示下属应当如何做事时,总感觉下属并没有真正听进去。比如最近公司正在搞一个大型年会,她指示应该要在月底前做好所需物品的采购,但到了月底,发现还有一些物品没有到位。发现这个问题后,她一下子很生气,有一种受到冒犯的感觉。 Being dissatisfied with others is a reflection of inner pressure and narcissism. Zhang Hao is the head of the logistics department of a foreign company. She is always dissatisfied with some of her subordinates. She is always blind to the way she works and solves problems. When she instructed her subordinates how to do things, she always felt that subordinates did not really listen to them. For example, the company is currently engaged in a large-scale annual meeting. She instructed that it should purchase the required items by the end of the month, but by the end of the month, there were still some items not found. After discovering this problem, she was very angry and had a feeling of being offended.