儿童的心理健康不仅与家长的教育方式有关,也与家长的养育方式有关。事实表明,儿童的许多心理卫生问题都是由不良养育方式直接造成的。据南京心理卫生研究中心对南京市内3～6岁儿童的调查发现,独生子女中挑食、偏食、不好好吃饭者占61.5%。北京和上海都有类似的调查,也同样发现,儿童中厌食者的比例相当高。这确实是新时期的一种新现象,在以前“吃糠咽莱”的年代,很少听说有谁患厌食症,现在丰衣足食了,“吃”倒成了一个负担。国外曾有人对151例厌食者进行追综随访,结果发现最终有131例成为精神病患者,想不到厌食者的精神 Children’s mental health is not only related to the parent’s education, but also related to parental rearing. Facts have shown that many of the mental health problems in children are directly caused by poor parenting. According to Nanjing Mental Health Research Center in Nanjing 3 to 6-year-old children survey found that only children picky eaters, partial eclipse, not eating well accounted for 61.5%. Similar surveys have been conducted in Beijing and Shanghai, and it is also found that the proportion of anorexia in children is quite high. This is indeed a new phenomenon in the new era. In the old days of “eating bran and eating lean meat”, we rarely heard anyone who suffered from anorexia. Now he is well-fed and “eating” has become a burden. Abroad had 151 cases of anorexia patients were followed up and found that eventually 131 patients became mentally ill, can not think of the spirit of anorexia